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| 11 Nov 2025 | ||
 dr_teagle | I do that strategy when hurt like "I am sorry that I am different" as a lash out | 03:28:17 |
 lambda | In reply to @dr_teagle:matrix.orgcounterpoint of this is why you should expose it to normalize woman being in the space because its its ambiguous people just assume its only men because thats how misogyny works | 03:28:18 |
| lambda | * counterpoint of this is why you should expose it to normalize woman being in the space because if its ambiguous people just assume its only men because thats how misogyny works | 03:28:33 |
| dr_teagle | ahh a fair point. | 03:28:48 |
| dr_teagle | in the long term that is certainly better, but in the short term when misogyny still exists(to a non-negligible extent), is it not better to be assumed a man, and thus not discriminated against.(this isnt the most eloquently worded but Ill trust yall to get my meaning). especially in a field where (I think, as I am trying to do chemistry) you are less likely to be needed in person? | 03:31:58 |
| dr_teagle | it is a question I think of are you willing to step out and be the victim of prejudice in hopes that it will change sometime in the future | 03:34:11 |
| dr_teagle | but this is (I think) severly off topic for this room(?),channel(?) idk. | 03:37:49 |
| lambda | might be a bit off topic but IMO just compartmentalize things and figure out what balance is what you can sustainability handle and build positive spaces. Which that last point is the whole point of this community | 05:26:14 |
 dish [Fox/It/She] | for me at least, it is never better to be presumed a man. I was presumed male the first 17 years of my life and I will never again let anyone believe it to be the truth. I am a woman, always have been and always will be. | 06:01:14 |
| dish [Fox/It/She] | I have found that most people happen to be normal about women unless you're on reddit or 4chan or weird discord servers | 06:01:45 |
 Sofie 🏳️⚧️ (she/her) | why isn't "pathsFromGraph" defined anymore? is this because of Lix or nixpkgs unstable? | 09:31:40 |
 Emma [it/its] | or twitter... | 09:52:36 |
 Nicole/Drezil 🏳️⚧️ (she/her) | I have found that most people happen to be normal about women unless you're ftfy ;) | 09:54:58 |
| Nicole/Drezil 🏳️⚧️ (she/her) | * I have found that most people happen to be normal about women unless ftfy ;) | 09:59:57 |
 Mats Tage Axelsson joined the room. | 10:03:31 | |
 Arian | builtins.fetchGit takes a narHash argument but this seems to be undocumented. is this expected? | 10:12:55 |
| Arian | i.e. :doc builtins.fetchGit doesn’t mention its existence | 10:14:44 |
 thubrecht | https://git.lix.systems/lix-project/lix/src/branch/main/lix/libexpr/builtins/fetchGit.md it is documented on the main version | 10:38:31 |
| Arian | sweet | 10:51:31 |
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| dr_teagle | If we continue this conversation should we make a thread? IDK how that works on matrix/element? I agree that most people are not consciously prejudiced against women, but a lot more are subconsciously prejudiced. An example is that women who fight for themselves are more likely to be seen as "bitchy". If more people were completely normal about women than the patriarchy wouldnt be so deeply entrenched. What do you define as "normal"? not actively hostile towards? By population most societies are at least restrictive towards women, 2 of the largest religions in the world are very easily distorted to become sexist, and I know that for the religion I follow(christianity-southern baptist) majority of the church body believes in classical gender roles and the need to conform to them. One of the major denominations of christanity had a schism recently because it elected a woman as leader- is that not sexist at least subconsciously? For that matter what defines sexism exactly? Is it "treating someone different because of their sex" if that is the case then is offering more painkiller to women sexist? There is a legitimate medical need to treat you differently based on sex for things like medications, BMI, etc. Is that sexist under that definition? Is a more "correct" definition of sexism "treating someone differently beyond what is needed based on their sex"? This is not me saying sexism doesnt exist, we can all agree that telling a woman that her only purpose is to cook and bear children is very sexist. I argue that besides base biology there is no difference between the base sexes(inter-sex people do exist but they complicate the model for now, as do trans I acknowledge that saying "I ignore you because you are complicated" is ... unideal) beyond the strictly biological I argue that the way we think is at base level the same. most behavioral and mental differences are taught/ reinforced through society. I do not have gender dysphoria so I cannot comment on what it feels like. | 13:43:47 |
 antifuchs | Please avoid threads, they are super inconsistently accessible across clients | 13:45:17 |
 K900 | I would suggest moving this to #Lix Off Topic though | 13:46:58 |
| dr_teagle | ahh ok ty | 13:47:34 |
| dr_teagle | forwarded it there | 13:48:26 |
 mei 🌒& | hey is this a known issue? substituting during a build: | 21:28:19 |
| mei 🌒& | just cache.nixos.org and pkgs.lix, nothing special | 21:28:49 |
| mei 🌒& | * just cache.nixos.org and pkgs.lix on nixos, nothing special | 21:28:58 |
 raitobezarius | Yes, this is a curl bug fixed in staging-next | 21:28:56 |
| mei 🌒& | oh, but i saw the other person had all sorts of openssl logs? | 21:29:23 |