| 5 Nov 2021 |
 Irenes | and I don't think there was much in the way of a meeting of the minds | 01:59:15 |
| Irenes | in terms of people understanding each others' complaints | 01:59:23 |
 tomberek | (i think i've caught up... i'm back) | 01:59:29 |
| Irenes | welcome back | 01:59:33 |
| Irenes | I remember that thread well, I joined Discourse to weigh in on it because I hoped I could calm things down | 02:00:52 |
| Irenes | my comment on that thread will forever be the first post that's shown when people go to my Discourse profile | 02:01:12 |
| Irenes | I take full responsibility for everything I said there | 02:01:24 |
 @jonringer:matrix.org | Things needed to be remedied long before it blew up. Sure there was failings on both sides. But it got ugly, and there was a lot of dog-piling and vilification of someone just doing PR reviews. | 02:01:48 |
| @jonringer:matrix.org | Also, no one had the common decency or compassion to reach out to him and address the behavior, and instead just let the loathing fester, waiting for another time for him to f**k up. | 02:02:55 |
| Irenes | this was the point at which I made the decision that I needed to become involved with the social aspects of Nix in order to do whatever I can to help | 02:03:04 |
| Irenes | and which lead directly to writing the RFC | 02:03:12 |
| Irenes | it is incorrect that nobody reached out to him prior to that thread | 02:03:36 |
| Irenes | but those communications are private | 02:03:41 |
| @jonringer:matrix.org | After I retracted his nomination as Release Manager at the desire of WorldofPeace, I guess I was the only one who had reached out to him to let him know that people were disgruntled with him and that he should change his behavior | 02:03:45 |
| Irenes | no | 02:03:53 |
| Irenes | you were the only one he took seriously | 02:03:58 |
| Irenes | I am glad that you did that | 02:04:02 |
| Irenes | I think it helped | 02:04:05 |
| Irenes | I am not comfortable giving my opinion of him in this public setting, we can take this to 1:1 if you want to discuss more | 02:04:28 |
| @jonringer:matrix.org | In reply to @irenes:matrix.org
it is incorrect that nobody reached out to him prior to that thread This is technically true. I was the first that wanted to help him, rather than just let me know how he f**ked up | 02:04:36 |
| Irenes | I can only imagine how he'd feel if he joined this channel and saw the discussion of him | 02:04:36 |
