| 24 Nov 2021 |
 joepie91 🏳️🌈 | Jonas Chevalier: I do, but there are limits, and "fuck you, just deal with it" is one of them | 13:31:45 |
 ryblade | ask me why words don't hurt | 13:31:53 |
| joepie91 🏳️🌈 | that is not a stance I am willing to entertain as valid | 13:32:03 |
| ryblade | ooh, this is getting juicy now | 13:32:18 |
| joepie91 🏳️🌈 | (and more bluntly, if it becomes the social norm in the NixOS community, I will leave it) | 13:32:19 |
| joepie91 🏳️🌈 | (and I suspect that so will many others) | 13:32:27 |
| ryblade | invalid, huh? wow. | 13:32:39 |
| ryblade | must be nice. | 13:32:53 |
| ryblade | i envy that you have such a perspective on things. | 13:33:34 |
| joepie91 🏳️🌈 | ryblade (you/your): I would also like to point out that you've been extremely provocative and aggressive in your comments over the past few days seemingly unprompted, and that your behaviour is not remotely consistent with principles of de-escalation and mediation | 13:33:49 |
| joepie91 🏳️🌈 | this is going well beyond "I have some concerns" and into "fuck everybody else" | 13:34:25 |
| ryblade | i consider you to be provocative as well. my ilved experiences are invalid because you disagree with them? | 13:34:26 |
 @zimbatm:numtide.com | In reply to @joepie91:pixie.town
(and I suspect that so will many others) do what you want, but bullying people into your opinion is not constructive | 13:34:33 |
| ryblade | that's quite something. | 13:34:36 |
| joepie91 🏳️🌈 | ryblade (you/your): I am not invalidating your experiences. I am stating that I will not under any circumstances accept your stance of "people will just have to deal with whatever gets thrown at them, tough shit". | 13:35:18 |
| ryblade | but i also respect your right to free speech. | 13:35:22 |
| joepie91 🏳️🌈 | which, again, is an abusive stance. | 13:35:38 |
| ryblade | so in this example, i would never ever consider asking for moderative | 13:35:45 |
| joepie91 🏳️🌈 | and quite overtly so. | 13:35:46 |
| ryblade | * so in this example, i would never ever consider asking for moderative intervention. | 13:35:52 |
| joepie91 🏳️🌈 | no, I'm sure you wouldn't. I don't see how that relates to what I'm saying - you're being the aggressor here, of course you would not ask for moderation. | 13:36:10 |
| ryblade | you deal with what is thrown at you in two clicks, it's easy. | 13:36:21 |
| @zimbatm:numtide.com | 🍿 | 13:36:29 |
| joepie91 🏳️🌈 | again, you are leaving no space for other people's experiences and background | 13:36:38 |
| joepie91 🏳️🌈 | Jonas Chevalier: I do not find that an appropriate comment here | 13:36:47 |
| @zimbatm:numtide.com | it's fine, we can disagree on things | 13:37:13 |
| @zimbatm:numtide.com | chill | 13:37:31 |
| joepie91 🏳️🌈 | basically saying "hah, I'm enjoying this social conflict!" is escalation, not de-escalation | 13:37:31 |
| @zimbatm:numtide.com | not every word we say should be held against us | 13:38:35 |
| @zimbatm:numtide.com | I'm pretty sure ryblade (you/your) didn't condone personal attacks, right? | 13:39:06 |
