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5 Nov 2021
@tomberek:matrix.orgtomberekHow much do you think the negative opinions are over-represented? How much do you think positive opinions are over-represented? (clearly not looking for exactness, an order of magnitude?)02:30:42
@irenes:matrix.orgIrenesI think in a discussion like this negativity always crowds out positivity, because it's frightening to people.02:31:07
@irenes:matrix.orgIrenesNegativity has a strong advantage.02:31:16
@irenes:matrix.orgIrenesYou can see this at a glance by looking at anyone's Twitter timeline.02:31:27
@tomberek:matrix.orgtomberekOkay, what would you think would lead to negative opinions being under-represented?02:31:59
@irenes:matrix.orgIrenesSo like02:32:35
@irenes:matrix.orgIrenesif a person reads a 500-word piece of negativity and a 500-word piece of positivity02:32:47
@irenes:matrix.orgIrenesthe negativity will stick in their mind far more strongly02:32:54
@irenes:matrix.orgIrenesbecause the amygdala records memories more strongly when the emotions are stronger02:33:07
@irenes:matrix.orgIrenesharsh words lead to stronger emotions02:33:13
@irenes:matrix.orgIrenesespecially on topics where somebody has a personal stake02:33:20
@irenes:matrix.orgIrenesit's unfair but it's how humans have always worked02:33:27
@tomberek:matrix.orgtomberekI might have gone too abstract. I'm asking about why people would not feel comfortable providing an opposing viewpoint in the RFC.02:33:45
@irenes:matrix.orgIrenesoh, sorry02:33:58
@irenes:matrix.orgIrenesyou're asking if I can see reasons why people who are opposed to the RFC would not express that?02:34:24
@tomberek:matrix.orgtomberekYes.02:34:34
@irenes:matrix.orgIrenesI can. For example, fear of becoming a target, whether justified or not, is very prevalent in the world right now.02:34:56
@irenes:matrix.orgIrenesbut anyway, my point is that negativity dominates these discussions by default02:35:44
@irenes:matrix.orgIrenesso the fact that so many people took the time to speak out positively02:35:55
@irenes:matrix.orgIrenesis a very strong signal to me02:35:59
@irenes:matrix.orgIrenesthe bias towards not speaking out to say negative things is far outweighed by the advantage that negative things have, once said02:36:26
@irenes:matrix.orgIrenesagain, just look at the world around us right now, at everybody constantly criticizing everybody else (a state of affairs which I find terrifying)02:36:52

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